Monthly Archive for September, 2011

Does The Thought Of Public Speaking Turn You To Jelly?

As a singer, it has always amazed me that speaking in public is the Western world’s number 1 fear, above flying and even death. I have been singing in public since I was seven and, to me, it is a natural thing to do. However, give me an instrument to play with my hands and I am consumed by stage fright. So what is it that turns us into jelly and makes previously rehearsed brilliance turn into jibberish and mistakes? At heart, we are still Stone Age creatures and find our safety in the group. By taking ourselves out of that group we become vulnerable. In fact, every time we stand up to speak in public our bodies believe we are going to be attacked and so go into the stress response. Our blood is flooded with adrenalin, our hearts pound and our breathing becomes shallow. We are ready for action but there is nowhere to run. This is why public speaking is in the position of number one fear. That and the fact that our voice is so revealing and tells everyone so much about us. In the first five seconds, our audience has decided whether or not it likes us, whether we are healthy, what kind of person we are, whether we can be trusted and whether or not we have the authority to be believed. And yet we need some adrenalin to perform well. The secret is to manage the stress response and that is what vocal coaching can help you to do. By learning a few simple techniques and practising them speaking and singing in public can be a joy both for us and our audience.

Why Does Singing Make You Feel Better?

It is a medically proven fact that singing makes you feel better. Quantum Physics tells us that not only is everything made up of packages of vibrating energy but that every package emits its own sound. The body is no different. Each of our cells makes its own sound. Put all of our cells together and we are vibrating like an orchestra with the sound of a choral symphony! When we sing, we help to keep that orchestra in tune. If part of our orchestra goes out of tune, everything sounds awful. Imagine, for a moment, that one of the violins in an orchestra was out of tune with all the other instruments – the entire piece would sound dreadful. By tuning up that violin, the music would sound harmonic again. When you sing, you effectively tune up your entire system, body, mind, emotions and spirit so that you and your life can flow harmoniously, easily and happily. That is why singing makes you feel so much better. So go on, sing in the car, sing with your friends, join a choir and chant. It is the best and least expensive way of keeping healthy!

September 2011 Newsletter

You’re lying in bed, tired but not sleepy. Thoughts spin round your head as you stare at the invisible ceiling. You fluff up your pillow – perhaps that will help. You turn over – perhaps a new position will enable your mind to switch off. You count sheep – surely you’ll drift off now…

 

But instead, you become even more alert and the night grinds onwards and it’s only towards dawn that you eventually doze only to be woken two hours later when the alarm goes off. How are you going to make it through the day? You’re exhausted, constantly yawning and can’t concentrate. Your eyes feel red and gritty and want to close all the time, even while you’re driving. You’ve become a danger to yourself and to others.

 

Research shows that a staggering 40% of women and 30% of men in the Western world are actively seeking help because of insomnia and there are many more who suffer in silence. Partly, insomnia is to do with our modern lifestyle. It is estimated that we sleep, on average three weeks less over the year than our grandparents did at our age. And the effects of sleep deprivation are beginning to show. We are becoming more nervous, we feel out of control, we’re unable to relax or make good decisions and our blood pressure is rising. Lack of sleep is also making us get fatter.

 

So what can we do? The orthodox medical route is via drugs but if you don’t want to take pills then science is beginning to offer some fascinating alternatives. One of the keys to understanding sleep patterns lies in our brainwaves. When we are awake, they oscillate at 13-30 hz (cycles per second) and are known as Beta. Below this is Alpha, an oscillation of 8 – 12 hz. In Theta, 3 – 7 hz, we experience the first stage of sleep known as as Rapid Eye Movement (REM) and finally, in Delta, 0.5- 3hz, we finally achieve that oh, so blissful state, deep sleep, in which our minds finally rest and our bodies heal.

 

Brainwave technology is one of the latest and most interesting discoveries to help the exhausted. Research into brainwave entrainment began in the 1930s when the use of flashing lights proved that the body’s internal rhythm patterns were controlled by moon phases, day lengths and seasonal temperatures. Now composers are creating sound tracks which incorporate natural sounds with electromagnetic pulses so that, at last, we are able to control our own brainwave states at the push of a button.

 

Help offered by the world of sound doesn’t end there. If you prefer live, acoustic sound, then tuning forks can offer relief not only for sleep disorders but also dyslexia, dyspraxia and learning difficulties. Tuning forks work by using binaural beat rhythms. When a different frequency is played into each ear, the brain will not only hear them separately but will also add them up and, most critically, subtract them. In this way, a high Beta brainwave can be entrained to a lower, sleep state in a gentle, pleasurable and profoundly relaxing way.

 

So don’t despair if you can’t sleep. There is help at hand. Discover the extraordinary power of tuning forks and Acoustic Brain Entrainment. Oh, and remember to smile. As Richard Harding Davis said: “No civilised person goes to bed the same day he gets up.” With a little help you’ll be able to retrain your brain into a healthy sleep pattern. Otherwise, Eric Morecombe and Ernie Wise will have the last laugh:

ERIC: You know, I heard something this morning that really opened my eyes.

ERNIE: What was it?
ERIC: My alarm clock!

 

Sweet dreams!

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